This one has me scratching my head. You all know me and know my
outgoing, bubbly personality, right? I love everybody (most of the time
anyway) :-).
So, here's a question for people with my personality.
You work with folks male and female, get along with them, and have
professional respect for them, etc. and it's lunch time. You say, "Hey, you
wanna go to Subway or Panda Express?" There's absolutely nothing behind it
except "You wanna get
lunch?"
Okay, so I asked a guy that I work
with the question. We've been working together for some time now. His
response to me. "Shouldn't I be the one asking?"
I look at him
like he has two heads because I didn't know what he was talking about and
then realize that he thinks I'm hitting on him. My alter ego, Shaquita, wanted to respond, "Not if you were the last piece of male specimen on this side of the River Jordan."
What's worse is that I couldn't suppress the
obnoxiou,s guttural laugh that flew out of my mouth. And if you know me, you all know that I can bellow. I looked into
his hurt eyes and told him that it wasn't that kinda of "lunch
question."
Questions for my girls?
Why do people assume that you
have some hidden, romantic agenda? How romantic can you get over a Kung Pao
Chicken, or a sloppy Subway sandwich that you bite into and mayonnaise drips
onto the corner of your lips.
Or, does the person you're talking to
believe the lie his mother told him when she said, "Baby, you're as fine as Denzel, Tyrese, Brad Pitt, or George Clooney." So they assume you're after their flabby or non-descript bodies.
I'd like to hear
your inputs.
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